As an NJ family photographer, one of the questions I’m asked most often is, “What should we wear?”
It’s an important one because your outfit choices can truly make or break how your photos turn out. But don’t panic! That’s exactly what I’m here for. I help my clients put together looks that feel comfortable, cohesive, and classic so your photos look beautiful not just today, but for years to come.
To make planning easier, I’ve created some fall outfit inspiration ideas with clickable links to help you prepare for your upcoming session. I’ve tried to keep everything affordable and aesthetic, so you can look and feel amazing without breaking the bank. These outfits are meant to serve as a guide, so feel free to mix and match or use pieces you already own!
My favorite color combinations are neutrals with subtle pops of color. During the fall and winter months, I always recommend incorporating layers and textures into your outfits. Layers not only photograph beautifully but also help keep you warm as the days get cooler. Think cozy cardigans, jackets, or vests for that perfect finishing touch. For texture, try adding chunky knits, corduroy, leather, or a touch of faux fur; all of which bring depth and visual interest to your photos.
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Choosing Outfits for Her
I always suggest starting with mom’s outfit first. This gives you the perfect foundation to style everyone else around her look. Dresses and skirts are wonderful choices for portrait sessions because they’re flattering on all body types! Long, flowy skirts or dresses photograph beautifully and add a sense of dimension and movement to your images. Fabrics like chiffon or tulle work especially well for this. And don’t forget- a great pair of heels can elongate your figure and add an elegant finishing touch!
When coordinating the rest of the family, try to limit matching prints or colors to no more than two people. This helps keep your photos visually balanced and ensures the focus stays on you, not the outfits. Instead of having everyone wear the same color, choose two or three complementary tones that blend naturally together. You can play with different shades, textures, and subtle patterns to create interest and cohesion. Just remember to avoid logos, bold graphics, or overly busy patterns, as they can distract from the connection and emotion in your photos.
Once you have the dress or outfit picked out, don’t forget about accessorizing! Adding a statement necklace, earrings or a bracelet will help complete your look, and add a little flair and pop to your photos.
Choosing Outfits for Him
We can’t forget about the guys! I always suggest styling the men to complement their partner’s outfit. Fitted dress pants or nice jeans paired with close-toed shoes are a classy choices that photograph beautifully. For your session, it’s best to skip the shorts, sandals, and loose-fitting pants as they tend to look too casual on camera.
Layers are also a great way to elevate his look. Blazers, sweaters, or vests photograph especially well, even in the warmer months. They add dimension, texture, and a polished feel to your images. I know it might not be the most comfortable option in the moment, but trust me — it’s always worth it when you see the final photos!
Don’t forget the little details! Even men can add a few thoughtful details to elevate their look! Ties or bowties, colored socks, suspenders, and watches are all great accessories that add personality and polish. While they might seem like small details, they bring a subtle touch of class and sophistication to your photos, the kind that makes your images feel extra refined and complete.
Choosing Outfits for Them
I always suggest dressing the little ones in something more dressy instead of their casual playwear. Dressy clothes, even on kids, will automatically make your photos stand out! Remember, there is no such thing as “too dressed up” for your portrait session, so have some fun!
I know they may be little, but many of the tips For Her and For Him still apply to the kids. (They’re basically little adults anyway, right?) For the girls, dresses and accessories are perfect! Maybe add a fun headband or bow for an extra pop of color. For the boys, layers are adorable! And don’t forget about the cute details like suspenders or a fun bowtie!
Final Thoughts
At the end of the day, the most important thing is that you feel comfortable and confident in what you’re wearing. When you feel good, it shows; and that’s what truly brings your photos to life. My goal as your photographer is to help you look and feel your best so we can capture those genuine, joy-filled moments that you’ll treasure for years to come.
If you’re still unsure about what to wear, don’t worry — I’m always happy to help you plan your outfits and make sure everything comes together beautifully.
Fall only lasts a short while and I book up quickly, so if you’re thinking about booking a family or mini session now is the time! Booking a Fall Mini Session in Bergen County, NJ guarantees you’ll have classic, joy-filled images to enjoy now and share with loved ones during the holidays.
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